This group's rules are:
1) Hate (racist/derogatory/etc.) speech is grounds for being banned.
In general we will do our best to warn folks before this happens (second chance principle). Doubling down to defend that speech is equivalent to a statement you intend to ignore the concern.
Hate speech includes terms you may have grown up with and thought were okay, but which have become clear more recently as causes of genuine pain and/or harm for some members of the group targeted by the terms involved. The second chance principle here is an opportunity for you to learn and change.
If it's pointed out you're using such words thoughtlessly, it's not an effort to suggest you're unworthy or less of a person or anything like that.
What it is, is an attempt to stop harm to other people that you're (probably) unwittingly taking part in. This is an ugly feeling all the same, finding out what you've been doing isn't OK. Like suddenly realizing you've been standing on a kitten's neck for the past five minutes. The best thing to do to process it, to recover from it, is focus on how this is about the word and the culture that made the word OK, rather than about you.
2) Civility is mandatory!
Please remember that if you're finding yourself having a negative emotional response to anything on this community, the proper response is no response at all.
Responding to someone you think is being rude by being rude yourself makes you the jerk, not the other way around.
3) Please don't delete your posts once people have replied.
This goes against the "Community resource" ethos of the group and it's rude to delete other people's content without permission. In general you should expect that when you start a discussion on the community, it’s there for keeps.
4) No Spam
You’re very welcome to advertise your game, blog or anything else if it has relevance to Fate; We even have a special category for “Crowdfunding in Fate”. If it doesn’t relate to Fate but is likely to be of interest to Fate fans then you’re still welcome to post it. We reserve the right to remove posts that we feel are egregiously unrelated to Fate. (This amounts to a request that folks post on-topic, but not a mandate, at least not yet.)